There are a lot of different reasons a woman will decide to sleep
with a man. The “how” and the “when” don’t really matter as much as the
“why.” A man wants to sleep with a woman because he is drawn to her, and
a lot of the time that draw is physical. I’m not saying there aren’t
other factors involved, but a lot of it is how she looks, how she
carriers herself and how other men respond to her.
For a woman, it’s often chemistry and curiosity that will make a woman want to sleep with a man. If it’s not because she is in relationship with him and wants to
sleep with him because she loves him, then it is often going to be a burning question of chemistry and/or curiosity that sparks her sexual attraction
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A
woman is always asking this question in her head: “Is he the one?” And I
don’t mean “the one” in a “meant to be” kind of way. She is asking, “Is
he the one with whom my chemistry will be off the charts?” If the spark
is intense, than she begins to ask, “How good could the sex be?”
Curiosity will get a woman in bed with a man faster than anything else.
The reason for this can be deceiving. The chemistry can be crazy and
insanely intense when making out and/or fooling around, but then fall flat in the bedroom.
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the most Virtual Coaching unlikely of connections, ones with very little chemistry, can
burn into the most incredible fires when moving on to sex. But the
question is always there. And because a woman is more complicated than a
man in the way her body works, the question is always, “How good can
the sex be?”
But if she doesn’t raise this question at all when
she is with you, than she is not going to sleep with you. The questions
of curiosity and chemistry must come into play at some point.
A woman isn’t going to sleep with you because you are “nice” or “sweet.” She will think of dating
you if you are sweet or nice, but that won’t get her to sleep with you.
And this is the curse of every “nice guy.” Why do women say they want a
nice guy but end up with men that treat them badly? Well, there are a
lot of reasons–insecurity, dependency, a toxic relationship, etc. But
ultimately, it’s that men who are jerks often have confidence. Ah yes, I
mentioned this before. Confidence creates a spark. It creates
chemistry. A guy who isn’t confident will have a much harder time
creating that chemistry; hence, the “nice guy” is passed over for the
jerk, who can raise the question of how good the sex could be.
Liz Vicious xoxox
FIRST TIME BLOW… Looking Back on my First 4TH
BLOWING SHIT UP!!! lol! Yeah tricked ya I know. Today was the first
time I have ever baught, lit, set off, or whatever else..lol..
fireworks! I had a blast. Danzig Matthew held roman candles with me and
showed me how to do it and the right way to hold it. Bill laughed his
ass off while I kept bringing out the big shabang stuff for him to lite,
then we would run and laugh and I would hide behind him to watch. I
have never EVER until now played with any sort of fireworks. It was so
much fun. I grabbed this thing called Haileys Comet and it was huge and
looked loud and pretty. We set it on the ground and lit it and I went to
run away but the boys wouldnt let me. They said I had to stay and watch
and that nothing was going to happen…well…after the first two giant
colorful balls of danger shot up and out it FELL OVER TOWARDS ME! lol! I
freaked out and so did they because these big ass colorful fireballs of
danger shot off everywhere and I ran like hell. I jumped straight in
the drivers seat and shut the door and ducked…2 of the big ass fireballs
of doom smacked right into the window and door after I shut it. We all
geeked out. After it was done for sure I jumped out and kept saying TOLD
YA SO YOU FUCKERS!!! lol! They were so scared cuz they thought I got
hit. Well I will have all kinds of video fun of tomorrow night for
everyone to see. Hopefuly I wont end up being one eyed Lizard…lol. Muah.
-Liz- xoxo
One of the best damn holidays ever! Hang with family and
friends over a brew, a hamburger, and an explosive! Can’t get better
than that! I am planning a big party for the events today! All my
friends are coming over to celebrate and relax. I never had my own 4th
before. It cool to be able to do this! I am proud of myself! Well, time
to get started with preparations. Later. Have fun and a safe holiday.
-Liz- xoxo
